Thiruvananthapuram: A notable trend has emerged in Kerala that challenges traditional perceptions about parenthood. Newly married couples in the state are delaying parenthood, prioritizing career aspirations and financial stability over immediate family expansion. This shift away from immediate parenthood is a striking deviation from previous trends, which suggests a growing emphasis on professional development among young couples.
Data compiled by researchers at a Kerala university indicates that between 2019 and 2023, the percentage of couples who had their first child within four years of marriage decreased from 90.29% to 86.19%. This decline may indicate a change in societal values and priorities among the younger generation in Kerala.
This trend is being facilitated by modern communication platforms such as WhatsApp, which provide a platform for couples to discuss and plan their life choices together. For instance, Sandhya R S, a young couple’s counselor based in Thiruvananthapuram, has observed an increase in consultations about career growth and financial planning among newlyweds.
While some view this shift as a sign of increased independence and self-reliance, others may perceive it as a departure from traditional family values. As the debate continues to evolve, one thing is certain: Kerala’s demographic landscape is undergoing change, and it remains to be seen how these new trends will shape the future of families in the state.
